“End of Life Conversations are Hard
We stumble, we stutter, we say things that derail the discussion when we have a patient at the end of life. But how do we learn to do better? We model good behavior. But in order to do that we need to hear good discussions. I listened to Ashley Shreve’s amazing SMACC Chicago talk: What is a Good Death?
After listening, I wanted to bring Ashley back on to really get into the nitty-gritty of the semantics of End of Life discussions. Ashley has been on the EMCrit podcast before discussing Critical Care Palliation. Now lets hear from here again…
Tidbits I pulled out of the Podcast
The three patients that will spur Ashley to try to have these discussions:
1. Advanced Cancer or Terminal Disease with Instability
2. Advanced Frailty/Dementia with Instability
3. Advanced Physiological Age (>85 y/o) with Instability
Start with, “I’m so worried about your family member,” and see the response
Then, “Tell me how things have been going with your family member”
Technique: Ask, Tell, Ask, Tell
Know the trajectories of care for the diseases we deal with
Does that mean you will do nothing? No, we actually want to intensify the treatment, with a focus on peace and dignity
We don’t want to artificially prolong the dying process
Vitalists comprise 5-10% of the population, you are unlikely to convince these folks in the ED
What if things don’t get better?”
— http://emcrit.org/podcasts/semantics-end-of-life-discussions/